The holiday is over, the presents are unwrapped, and those of us not trapped by blizzards are plotting paths home. Whats next? Something near and dear to my heart - proper thank yous - the pen and ink on paper variety.
A special thanks to my father-in-law for tipping me off to a story on NPR this morning about a man who dedicated a year of his life to the craft of letter writing. In 2008 he wrote one thank you note a day for an entire year - to friends, family, co-workers, even his favorite barrista at Starbucks. Kralik eventually turned his letter writing journey into a book - 365 Thank Yous.
He said his grandfather was the inspiration for this idea to say thanks over 365 days. As a boy, his grandfather would send him a silver dollar every time he sent him a thank you note. When he'd write another thank you for the silver dollar, he'd get another coin. "'That was the way thank-you letters worked', he told me," he said. Years later, Kralik wrote:
I'd like to take Kralik's message, about the giving quality of thank you notes, to heart. This post-holiday snow-in is the perfect time for me to sit down with my address book and a box of stationery and thank everyone who made this 2010 holiday season so memorable.I came up with an idea...I would try to find one person to thank each day. One person to whom I would write a thank-you note....If my grandfather was right, I would have a lot more of what I was thankful for by the end of the year.
"With a handwritten note, a piece of you will be in the same room with the person to whom you write," Kralik writes.
So thanks to my parents and to Dave's for sticking with us through a stressful house-hunt. Thanks to my brother and his lovely girlfriend for pup-sitting during so many of our weekend trips. Thanks to Joanna and Ryan for getting married and getting the family together for so many happy occasions in 2010. And so many, many more.....not sure if 365 notes are in the cards for me, but as a 2011 New Year's resolution, I definitely hope to perfect the craft of thank you note writing.
Photo courtesy of Penelope's PressKralik offers 10 tips for better letter writing in the NPR piece. Rule #1?
Focus on the other person. First, find their address, and write it out yourself on the envelope. Where are they living? What did they go through to give you this gift? When is the last time you did something like that for them.





































